Are You a Go Getter? Here’s What You Need to Know
When people hear the word “go getter,” they often picture someone bouncing out of bed at 5 a.m., smashing through to-do lists like a superhero, and building empires before breakfast. But let’s be real here: life doesn’t always play out like that. Some mornings, you roll over, hit snooze, and stare at the ceiling wondering if you’re truly cut out for this whole “dream chasing” thing. And yet, deep inside, there’s this fire that won’t let you settle. That voice whispers, “You were made for more.” Sound familiar? Then this piece is for you.
I’ve written over 80 motivational books, and I’ve received more than 10,000 heartfelt reviews from people around the world who claim those words gave them the nudge they needed. But here’s what I’ve noticed: it’s not just about being called a go getter. It’s about knowing how to train yourself to dream bigger and then do something about it. There are plenty of people who work hard but stay stuck in circles because they never really stretched their dreams. Others talk big dreams but never move their feet. And then there are those rare few who figure out how to balance both and that’s when the magic happens.
So here’s my question to you. Do you just want to be another person wearing the badge of a go getter, or do you want to be the type who breaks barriers, sets new records, and changes your story for good? Stick with me as I break this down. I’ll share practical steps, relatable stories, and even answer some questions you probably already have in your mind. And I promise this won’t be one of those squeaky clean, perfect-sounding pep talks. This is going to be real, imperfect, and hopefully, just what you need to hear today.
The Truth About Being a Go Getter
First things first. A go getter is not always the loudest in the room, nor the one constantly posting highlight reels on social media. Being a go getter means you have an itch for more. You might not even know what “more” looks like right now, but you know you’re not satisfied sitting still. That little hunger inside you? That’s the seed of greatness.
Here’s the tricky part though. Some people confuse being busy with being a go getter. You can run around like a headless chicken, working 16 hours a day, and still not be making real impact. Productivity without direction is just glorified exhaustion. So if you’ve been pushing hard but not seeing results, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not a go getter. It might just mean you need to sharpen your focus.
A Relatable Scenario
Let’s paint a quick picture. Imagine someone named Sarah. She’s in her early 30s, lives in the UK, and has always been called a “hard worker.” She clocks in extra hours at her job, helps out at home, and still finds time to volunteer at her local community center. People admire her. But deep inside, Sarah feels stuck. She wants to start her own wellness brand, but fear and lack of clarity keep her from moving. She wonders, “Am I even a real go getter, or just a busy bee?”
Sound like anyone you know? Maybe it’s you. The truth is, Sarah is already a go getter because she has the hunger. But she needs to learn how to dream bigger and step into action that actually builds her own vision, not just everyone else’s. That’s the difference between a go getter who thrives and one who burns out.
Step by Step Guide to Training Yourself to Dream Bigger and Do Bigger Things
Step 1: Give Yourself Permission to Dream Beyond the Obvious
Many people don’t lack dreams. They lack permission. Somewhere along the way, society, family, or even self-doubt clipped their wings. They started dreaming small so they wouldn’t face disappointment. If you’re serious about being a go getter, you need to write down your wildest dreams—the kind that make people raise eyebrows. You’re not writing them down to impress anyone. You’re writing them down to remind yourself that you’re alive for more than routines.
Step 2: Upgrade Your Circle
If you hang around people who only talk about last week’s football scores or neighborhood gossip, don’t be surprised if your dreams shrink to fit that environment. A go getter needs fuel. Surround yourself with people who talk about building, growing, and stretching. And here’s the kicker: they don’t all need to be successful yet. Sometimes, just being around other hungry dreamers keeps your fire alive.
Step 3: Start Small but Think Large
This is where many go getters mess up. They either dream big and never start, or they start small and forget the big picture. You need both. Let’s say you want to start that wellness brand like Sarah. Don’t wait until you have a million pounds or dollars. Start with one product, one service, one post. But keep the vision of building a global brand in your mind. Each small action is a brick in the castle you’re building.
Step 4: Learn the Discipline of Consistency
There’s no way around this one. Go getters who thrive are consistent, even when nobody claps. It’s the blog you keep writing when no one is reading yet. It’s the gym session you show up to when results aren’t visible. Consistency builds trust in yourself, and trust in yourself builds momentum.
Step 5: Measure Progress, Not Just Activity
Don’t confuse motion for progress. Ask yourself weekly, “Did I move closer to my big dream?” If the answer is no, adjust. A true go getter doesn’t just keep moving blindly. They reflect, measure, and pivot when needed.
Common FAQs About Go Getters
1. Can you be a go getter if you’re shy or introverted?
Absolutely. Being a go getter is not about personality. It’s about drive. You can be quiet in the room but fierce in execution. Some of the world’s biggest innovators were introverts.
2. Do go getters always succeed?
Nope. They fail a lot. But the difference is, they don’t let failure become their final chapter. They use it as a steppingstone.
3. What if I’ve been a go getter before but I feel burned out now?
That’s normal. Burnout happens when your fuel tank runs empty. It’s time to rest, recharge, and then dream again. You don’t stop being a go getter just because you hit a wall. You pause, recover, and then run smarter.
4. Is being a go getter the same as being ambitious?
Not exactly. Ambition is a desire. Go getters put legs on ambition. They chase it down and bring it to life.
The Mindset Shift Every Go Getter Needs
Here’s something most folks won’t tell you: dreaming bigger isn’t about greed or chasing more stuff. It’s about responsibility. If you’ve been gifted with ideas, energy, and vision, it’s almost selfish not to use them. That doesn’t mean everyone needs to become a billionaire. It means if your dream is to build a bakery that employs ten people, own it. If your dream is to write a book that inspires teenagers, chase it. Big doesn’t mean flashy. Big means meaningful.
Practical Ways to Train Yourself Daily
- Affirm Your Dreams Out Loud – It sounds cheesy, but when you say, “I am building something that matters,” your brain begins to align with that reality.
- Set Weekly Challenges – Push yourself into uncomfortable but growth-filled spaces. Maybe that’s pitching your idea to someone or posting your work online.
- Track Wins, Not Just Work – Write down every small victory. Those notes will remind you you’re not stagnant.
- Celebrate the Hustle – Don’t wait until the mountain top to celebrate. Acknowledge the small climbs.
A Playful Note
Listen, my friend, being a go getter isn’t for the faint of heart. You’ll get called crazy, and sometimes even you’ll think you’re off your rocker. But that’s part of the ride. As the folks in London might say, “Keep your chin up, mate.” Or as someone in Brooklyn might yell across the street, “You got this, fam!” The slang may change, but the point is the same: don’t give up.
At the end of the day, being a go getter isn’t about titles or applause. It’s about waking up each day with the courage to chase what matters to you. It’s about stretching your dreams until they scare you a little, and then doing the hard, messy, everyday work of bringing them to life. Whether you’ve already made a mark or you’re just starting out, the journey is wide open.
So, are you ready to stop wondering and start building? Because the world is waiting for your next big move. The only question is what will it be?
